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Sayoni Hot 20 List: Nominations!

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Every year, mainstream, men’s magazines such as FHM and Maxim publish lists of Hot 100 Women. And every year, we choke on those lists because they feature typically boring, made-for-straight-men, never-over-35, and never-over-110-pounds women. We know, that as queer women, we have way better taste, and we are able to appreciate all kinds of beauty.

Hence, we are opening nominations for our very own Sayoni Hot 20 List! Nominate about 2-15 female celebrities based in Singapore, or of Singapore origin – actresses, musicians, writers, directors (and politicians?) and more, whom YOU think are attractive and/or sexy. Do not rank them, simply list them.

Nominations will be closed in two weeks, after which voting will be opened. You can either leave a comment or email us privately at This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it..


# pleinelunee 2010-02-01 20:50

pleinelune said,

June 13, 2008 at 8:02 pm

I vote Vernetta Lopez, Janice Koh and my oh-so-delectable Pam Oei.
# jen 2010-02-01 20:50

jen said,

June 17, 2008 at 5:40 pm

I vote for Ovidia Yu! Sexy mind.
# jen 2010-02-01 20:50

jen said,

June 17, 2008 at 5:45 pm

I forgot to add nice slim and fit body too. Kind of lame but still.. you said hot.
# forever sunny 2010-02-01 20:50

forever sunny said,

June 17, 2008 at 6:33 pm

names not in order of merit:

sylvia lim (worker’s party),
Dr. catherine lim (writer/ political commentator),
stephanie sun (singer),
Dr. Huang Chih-mei (Dr. Chee Soon Juan’s wife)…
# jj 2010-02-01 20:50
jj said,

June 17, 2008 at 8:49 pm

My nominees are:

Ovidia Yu
Vernetta Lopez
Eleanor Wong
Karen Tan … hearing her sing makes my knees weak …
# Writing-Yoga-Living 2010-02-01 20:51

Library Thing & Sayoni happenings « Writing-Yoga-Living said,

June 18, 2008 at 1:54 pm

[...] I got nominated for the Sayoni ‘hot list’ [...]
# wattts 2010-02-01 20:51

watts said,

June 21, 2008 at 6:05 pm

for the locaaal flaavour…

Eleanor Wong – for her WITS and the famous trilogy
Tan kheng Hua – for her convincing potrayal thanks to the above…
Vernetta Lopez – for never failing to make me smile
Wendy Koh – for her guitaary talent
# mel 2010-02-01 20:51

mel said,

June 22, 2008 at 9:09 pm

eleanor wong, FOR SURE.

yann yann yeo – awesome stage and film actress.
# tt 2010-02-01 20:51
tt said,

June 24, 2008 at 11:28 am

Ovidia Yu–have got to glimpse sight of her in’girl’ drag to understand precisely why so!
# Skot 2010-02-01 20:52

Skot said,

June 24, 2008 at 2:26 pm

What a load of rubbish !
There is NO such thing as “queer” women.

The vain , vulgar , irresponsible choice of “lesbianism” is an insult to true womanhood , to real women.
And , get real….it is all these halfwitted , self absorbed girls being “lesbians” who idolise super-skinny , near anorexic bodies….bizarrely trying to look like ‘boys’.
Real men love women with a womanly figure….curves , movement , shape , buxomness….real life and beauty.
Real men love real women.
“lesbianism” is evil… have not got better taste , let alone ‘way better taste’….getting into this conceited depravity.
And why is this corrupt lifestyle catching on so much in Singapore?….rampant affluence , unchecked self obsession , ego-centrism in extremis.
Not good.
Wise up.
Get back to nature.
Love men , the way you are meant to.
We love you.
# lingg 2010-02-01 20:52

ling said,

June 24, 2008 at 3:30 pm

I think this fella really has nothing better to do. And I don’t think he understands women too. Ah well. The simplistic mind of a male human.

Anyway. My vote is for Cheryl Fox. Hawt….
# radiokhaki 2010-02-01 20:52
radiokhaki said,

June 24, 2008 at 3:44 pm

Cheryl Fox for me as well.

i think SKOT spelt his name incorrectly… i believe this LITTLE boy meant to type S-N-O-T.

i heard Cheryl Fox is straight, married or something. but you know it’s something we accept and not insult. unlike some SNOT guy… HAHAHA oh god.
# Skot 2010-02-01 20:54

Skot said,

June 24, 2008 at 4:58 pm
Ling…….I hate that easy sexism………”the simplistic mind of a male human”.
That stunning arrogance.

Disregard , and dismissal , thrown about by arrogant females….consumed by themselves , and becoming “lesbians”.

The “simplistic minds of male humans” created most ALL of the inventions which you use……the “simplistic minds of male humans” created culture , language , science , art , literature , architecture, medicine , music ……..
(could you imagine the response if a male said something like “the simplistic mind of human females”?…oh , the insults that would fly ! )
And , Ling , you wouldn’t be here today if it weren’t for a particular “simplistically minded” male human.

I’m not a “fella”…call me a fellow if need be. But i’m not going to be fobbed off by some inhuman , flippant phrase for a male.
I understand women…’re not the great mystery that the propaganda promotes !
Girls , or women , are NOT supposed to be describing other women as “hawt” !
(what , is that some example of the ’sophisticated’ mind of the “lesbian” female ? )
-radiokhaki . . . .whether as SKOT or S-N-O-T , my words are truth.
(and , again , is that “snot” dig further ‘proof’ of the “maturity” of “queer women” ? )

And , though i still retain (in spite of the jaded callouseness of so many) my childhood spirit , my little boy spirit…….i am not a “LITTLE boy”.
( and , also , could you imagine the ‘outrage’ if a male had to stoop to calling a woman a “little girl” ? )

“straight , married , or something” ?… flippant , so crass.
No one ‘is’ straight , per se…..because NO-ONE “is” “gay/lesbian”.

ALL men are created for women.
ALL women are created for men.

ALL human beings are straight.
Your current , self absorbed , irresponsible depravity…is NOT your ‘identity’.

Don’t try and fool anyone…..what you do , is , always , an insult…..the very worst of insults.

It’s not “hahaha”.

And you should call out to God , for real.

# pleinelunee 2010-02-01 20:54

pleinelune said,

June 24, 2008 at 8:53 pm

Uh-oh… think someone forgot their meds today. And this nickname looks familiar, I am pretty sure he has trolled Sayoni or my personal blog in the past.

Ignore him, ladies… our time is better spent thinking of more names than responding to this person.
# HMoody 2010-02-01 20:55

HMoody said,

June 24, 2008 at 9:01 pm

To SKOT, I only got a few things to say.


And for the rest who posted here, here’s something to think about when people like SKOT get all righteous and judgmental on your ass:-

people in glasses houses shouldn’t throw stones.
# skot 2010-02-01 20:55

Skot said,

June 25, 2008 at 6:19 am

Both of these replies , from pleinelune and HMoody , are prime examples of people who know they are wrong , know that what they are doing is wrong , can muster no response whatsoever to what i have written…..but , once again , try to come up some flimsy ways of saying that i’m somehow “not allowed” to say it.

“Someone forgot their meds to day” ? !!
Gosh , i can only imagine the torrents of abuse if a man said that to a woman !

And…my name looks familiar , because i have “trolled” Sayoni , or your personal blog , in the past……..yes , and ?
You still skirt around the fact that what you are doing is wrong……’s being indulged in , and boasted about , here on Sayoni , on other equally corrupt websites , and all over your ‘personal’ blogs……….and that is why i must “troll” these sites. That is why i must stridently fight back against this vanity on these sites.

“Ignore him” “ladies”…………ignore this , ignore that…you are doing way too much ignoring already ! Listen to the truth for a change.
And , by getting into “lesbianism” you are no longer ladies… relinquish the honour of being referred to as ladies.

And , HMoody , those awful , trite, computer-speak abbreviations……..i hate them , don’t use them on me , please.

“People like SKOT”?……..what are “people like SKOT” ?…….you mean good people , true people ……

“get all righteous and judgemental on your ass” ?………..well , at least you admit i am righteous !
And that is in opposition to being wrong , which you are.

Judgemental ? . . .. .well , do something wrong ,and you get judged for it.
And , you’re behaviour condemns itself…….your very own conscience judges you.
Before we even have to get to Divinity , nature , morality and culture , which all , stridently , lays down firm judgement , that what you are doing is wrong.

“people in glass houses shouldn’t throw stones” ?

People……glass houses…….stones ?………you , who are indulging in “lesbianism”….have the nerve to talk about glass houses , and throwing stones?

“lesbianism”….the most conceited , vain , vacuous , superficial , elitist , parasitic and offensive of wastefully decadent “lifestyles”……is the most brittle , fabricated, glass house of all !

SKOT . . .
# lingg 2010-02-01 20:55

ling said,

June 25, 2008 at 9:24 am

yawn. Pleinelune.. I agree. :D

Hmm. Oh oh oh. I think Belinda Lee is hawt too. *grins*
# Plecco 2010-02-01 20:56
Pleco said,

June 25, 2008 at 9:29 am

Pleine, do we have to ignore him? ‘Skot’ is so funny!

Can’t we play ‘guess why he’s here?’ instead?

I feel the real reason he is here is to try to make himself feel better because his high flying power career is failing to impress his curvaceous doting mother and adoring big bosomed wife and daughters… not to mention his successful & wealthy corporate macho buddies.

Unless of course he’s got none of the above.

And is trying to find someone (other than God & himself) to blame for the fact he’s so socially & economically limp in spite of his good school ‘advantages’

Rats, now I feel sorry for him because he’s trying to make himself look better to himself by putting others down.
(this also works in public loos where he tries to tell himself his p**** isn’t too small if he can only see smaller ones on other guys… except he can’t, so he’s resorted to using cubicles & making petty bitchy comments here)

Anyway, being lesbian is a lot less ‘wrong’ in God’s eyes than ignoring the beam in your own eye, brother Skot.
God tells me it’s not wrong. God is not so petty. Why it is ‘wrong’ for you is probably because your fixation/fetish/fascination for us lesbians is taking up too much of your otherwise pointless life.

The great part is showing his posts to straight women. I read them to two straight friends so far (one married, one single) and they agree he sums up all the reasons that most turn them off men! (they both mentioned insecurity, inability to see any other viewpoint, self-righteousness & said he sounds like the woman he’s closest to would be his mother even if he doesn’t get along with her!!)
# Writing-Yoga-Living 2010-02-01 20:56

Very Busy Today « Writing-Yoga-Living said,

June 25, 2008 at 9:55 am

[...] Posted on June 25, 2008 by Ovidia But just blew 45 min replying to a troll on the Sayoni blog… waste of time, I know, [...]
# # HMoody 2010-02-01 20:56

HMoody said,

June 25, 2008 at 12:49 pm

“There once was a troll lurking under the bridge looking for innocent children to eat as they passed over him, and his name was Skot.”

Skot made my day by responding to my reply of “glass houses” and “throwing stones”. Just gotta love riling people up and getting them to projectile vomit out their issues and insecurities with just 1 sentence from moi. And once again, to Skot -


Sorry dude, I like using computer abbreviations, and just as you are allowed to say your mind in this blog, I’m allowed to write in computer abbreviations.
# HMoody 2010-02-01 20:56
HMoody said,

June 25, 2008 at 12:54 pm

Cheryl Fox…hmmm…I would think she’s hot too, but now not really.

Still Pam Oei for me.And erm…Priscelia Chan..*hides*
# esther 2010-02-01 20:56

esther said,

June 26, 2008 at 3:48 am

Ovidia Yu anything for me. Does she post her writings here? Only saw it once……….can we have more of her stuff here please?
# esther 2010-02-01 20:56

esther said,

June 26, 2008 at 3:49 am

I mean I vote for Ovidia Yu and only her. Thanks.
# Skot 2010-02-01 20:57

Skot said,

June 26, 2008 at 10:22 am


I know that “lesbianism” revolves entirely around ego and enchecked affluence….but , no, i do not have a “high flying power career”….it is you who are in superficial , vacuous , meaningless office jobs , who get into “lesbianism”……i actually work for a living.

Please do not say anything about my mother.

I do not have “an adoring big bosomed wife” , nor any daughters.
I am unmarried , as yet.
But , i fear , that with the way things are going , it’ll stay that way.

(and , it’s sends a shudder to imagine what you consider about mnes’ wives , and about parents daughters….you should stop it.)

And i do not have “successful and wealthy corporate macho buddies”.
Firstly , i have friends , not ‘buddies’.
They are to varying degrees successful….but not the materialistic kind of ’successful’ to which you infer….the only kind of “successful” you have become useful.
They are masculine…..not ‘macho’……save that for the vain fools who become “homosexuals” , or the meatheads , jocks and office workers to which you refer.

I generally despise most corporatism , and corporate types.

I don’t have “good school advantages”……i have had to struggle and strive.

It is you , getting into the corrupt , self absorbed “lesbian scene” who are coming from all this stuff that you try to pin on me.

Are you trying to be funny ?
Wilfully obtuse ?

“lesbianism” is an offense to God. The vain choice of “lesbianism” is completely wrong in God’s eyes.
And the vanity of “lesbianism” is completely caused by the conceited beam in your own eye !

God does NOT tell you that what you are doing wrong “isn’t wrong”.
Nothing is too petty for God.
God is concerned with everything , from each individual leaf falling in autumn , to each tiny bug crawling in the dark under each stone , to the tiniest of molecules swirling inside our bodies.
The union of Male and Female is not petty !
The harmonious union of Man and Woman is the absolutely most crucial relationship , after the individual’s with God.
Man and Woman is the very foundation point of all society.
Man and Woman is the very nexus of family….and the husband and wife is the very core of society , from which everything else eminates.
Man and Woman is the absolute centre of all culture.

And the corruption of this….the violation of this….the disregard and destruction of this… far from petty !

Watch yourself.

It’s shocking how you will so callously say someone has a pointless life.
While you indulge in “lesbianism”….the most pointless waste of life !

I do have a fixation , but less so a ‘fascination’….and much less so a “fetish” for “lesbianism”….because it is the worst curse of these times !

I’m not going to much about the ’straight women’ that you showed my comments to.
Crucially though……you will not bend my ear to being duped by this imagined hierarchy…..there is no division between ’straight women’….and ” ” lesbians” “….because ,in spite of your vanity , no-one is “lesbian”.

Yes , i am very close to my mother.
What do you imagine is wrong with that ?
It’s family !
Your current “lifestyle” is an insult to motherhood.

But , rest assured , i am close to many women….i have many female friends , and always have had.
(and don’t be so smug , there are a great many ‘’straight” women…real women….who , rightfully , despise “lesbianism” and “homosexuality”)

What is it about my words , you claim , they said “turns them off men”?
Truth ? Honesty? Passion? Intellect ? Soul? Emotion? Need ? Depth ? Conviction ? Fervour ? Wit ? Eloquence ?
If they are truly “straight”…then they should agree with my words , and support me.

‘Insecurity’ ?
Yes , i am insecure….knowing that we have come to a time when so many girls and women will , at any moment , run off to “lesbianism”.
Wake up !…..yes , this most hurtful of deceit does make me insecure…how could it not ?
Men are supposed to able to rely on women , as women should be able to rely on men !
Of course i feel insecure while the rug is being pulled out from under me , from under men.
We are not supposed to feel secure in and of ourselves…..we are supposed to feel secure in a loving , virtuous and secure society !

“lesbianism” is NOT another viewpoint… is blinkered , inverted , irresponsible self obsession !
There is no positive or beneficial “view” to be seen about this !

“self – righteous”?
No,………..righteous !

# Skot 2010-02-01 20:57

Skot said,

June 26, 2008 at 10:35 am

HMoody ,

I am not a “troll”.

I love children !

I have worked , on and off , in childcare for the last nine years……i have a brilliant relationship with children , a real , natural repore…..and they teach me as much themselves as i teach them , about real spirit , innocence and virtue…..which is especially heartwarming, and strengthening, when confronting those so jaded and cynical as yourself , who have almost completely clouded over your own childhood spirit.

I adore the children in my family.

I stop to speak , and interract , with children , any chance i can , when i’m out and about….and consider it a blessing.

I sponsor a little child in Bangladesh.

I do volunteer work with some handicapped and disabled children.

So , please , take back your crass comments about me and children.
And it’s sad that you have gotten into a corrupt “lifestyle” which , by definition , can lead to no children.

You should really stop trying to rile people up , and actually get back to real , purposeful , harmonious , creative life.

You give your insulting comments , and i’ll reply , and put them in their place.
I’m not vomitting anything.
But it is most definitely an issue……which does make me ‘insecure’, in a manner of speaking….and there is no excuse for you to do that.

Don’t call me “dude”.
I am saying my mind , because it is truth , virtue , meaning and purpose.
Your use of computer abbreviations illustrates your contrite attitude , your callous insensitivity , and your vain superficiality.

# Plecco 2010-02-01 20:57

Pleco said,

June 26, 2008 at 3:02 pm

Hahaha… he’s wonderful, this little troll…

Oooh… lovely spluttering rage from the little man. Surrounded by his safe women friends who, if they have any kind of women’s intuition, will continue not getting romantically involved with this mama’s boy!

Skot, watch out for your suppressed paedophilia–most people consider that even more evil an issue than lesbianism…

So bye Dude, Dude, Dude… your saying so doesn’t make nothing so because as your job, life & love testify… you don’t really add up to much more than a going nowhere joke, do you? You are so desperate for attention that you are here trying to draw attention to yourself on forums that have nothing to do with you.

If you don’t like lesbians, stay away from lesbian forums.
Like I’ll stay away from your paedophilic love children so much cannot walk past without trying to pick one up forums.

Yes, I’m mis-representing your high and mighty claims to child sponsoring & ‘volunteer’ work… but that is precisely what you are doing to us here with your shrill shrieks of disapproval.

So mind your own business–& get your weight & blood pressure tested while you’re at it. You’re at high risk for stress & gout… Dude.
# Skot 2010-02-01 20:57

Skot said,

June 26, 2008 at 4:20 pm

All that , is written with utter contempt , total malice , deliberate ignorance , cruel conceit and dismissive insensitivity by someone given over almost completely to cold hearted arrogance.

You cannot honestly reply to anything i write , just attempt to embarass me away with more cruel insults.

You know , your vindictive , callous attitude could actually make many men wonder why they love women…..could actually make some men question why they should respect or care for women.

And still , yes , i know , that in spite of your vulgar attitude and immature diatribe….you’ll go out any old time and get other ‘women’.
Not good at all.

It’s shocking what some women imagine they are allowed to say , and more shockingly actually do “get away” with……and it’s like no-one hears……your statements about a “little man” , “paedophilia” , ” a go nowhere joke”….can you actually hear yourself ?
Is anyone sane actually reading what Pleco has written.

And , of course , because you have arrogantly chosen to be “”lesbian”" , you are ‘magically’ ‘beyond reproach’.
Not good.

It was ‘HMoody’ who wrote something bizarre about me being a ‘child eating troll’…… i wrote about my natural love for children , which every real man and woman should have…and my work with , and help for , children.
And , with your awful child hating , family hating , arrogant , spite……come up with this repugnant stuff about ‘paedophilia’…… should watch what you say.

There is NO “lesbians”.
Your vain conceit does not ad up to being a seperate , superior lifeform !
And i don’t merely “don’t like” “lesbianism”.
I hate “lesbianism” !

There is no such thing , therefore , as a “lesbian forum”……
A bunch of arrogant gender supremacists does not add up to some beneficial ‘forum’ !
And , what a depraved , irresponsible vulgarity to imagine warrants a “forum”.

This situation has everything to do with me !
This issue has everything to do with me.
You are all “”loving”" and having “”sex”" with each other…..coldly and cruelly leaving men in the dust , fit only as being manual labourers in the grey margins…..denying us your love and touch…….so this corrupt “forum” doesn’t have “nothing to do with me”…….it has everything to do with me.

What kind of game are you trying to play?
You know very well that what you are doing is wrong….and it is what you write that is the ’shrill shrieks’ of someone caught being bad , and who won’t admit to it.

This is stressful , yes , but it is my business.
Society is everyone’s business….and the irresponsible destruction of society is everyone’s business.

You think that repeating “dude” over and over again is funny?
Is anyone actually reading what Pleco writes…..this isn’t “sophistication”…..this is mindless inanity.
I’m sick of this…..where being a female just makes for automatic “get out of jail free”.
Just repeating insulting things is making for bad blood… not feign innocence when it starts to rain down on you.

You can , and should , stop this.

# Skot 2010-02-01 20:58

Skot said,

June 26, 2008 at 4:46 pm

And there is nothing to mis-represent about what you are up to , Pleco…about what you are all up to.

The choice of “lesbianism” , is the choice of vanity , arrogance and irresponsibility.

“lesbianism” cannot be represented in anything other than a negative light.
The vulgar choice of “lesbianism” cannot be rearranged , added up a different way or ‘represented’ in any way that could make it seem “o.k.”.

“lesbianism” is wrong….no mis-representation there.


Nothing that can be ‘mis-represented’.

# lingg 2010-02-01 20:58

ling said,

June 26, 2008 at 5:05 pm

Mr Skot. If you don’t like what we’re talking about, if you don’t like how we’re feeling, if you don’t like our lifestyle… Just stay away.

Nobody in their “sane” mind here bothers much about what you’re trying to say. I know you’re going to reply with a whole list of comments and remarks to what I’m writing now and honestly, no one cares. Really.

We’re tired of seeing your comments and what we really want to see, is a list of candidates who will make the Sayoni Top 20 List.

So. Bugger off and let the candidates come flowing ladies!

# Plecco 2010-02-01 20:58

Pleco said,

June 26, 2008 at 5:10 pm

And while we’re at it, dear Skot, nothing you say means anything–here or anywhere else.

Recognising that God create me perfect as a lesbian has been one of the most powerful blessings in my life.

You can claim whatever you like about things you know nothing about–but you shouldn’t show up your ignorance and stupidity to those who do know and expect not to get laughed at like you are here.

And yes, I think calling you a dude is funny because, Dude, you were a joke to me & then you got so were so touchy about being called ‘Dude’, Dude!

The fact you have no woman in your life (apart from your loving mama) is not our fault, Dude. Stop thinking women are so powerful or ‘up to’ stuff that threatens you.

We aren’t interested enough in you to bother.

Anyway, this was great fun–thanks for playing the fool/straight guy here. Have to go prep for tomorrow’s…

Hope you’ll be back with more of your quirky & desperate ‘I fear lesbians feel more powerful than me so I’m anti-lesbian’ tirades soon!
# Pleinelune 2010-02-01 20:59

June 26, 2008 at 8:47 pm

Dude, seriously, get off this page. If you want to continue your anti-lesbian tirades, can you please do it elsewhere? We’re more inclined to actually read the rubbish you write if you weren’t interrupting a great conversation we were having on an entirely different topic which is infinitely more interesting than you.

And one thing: you ain’t God, so don’t pretend to be the authority on wrong and right. You can tell us it is, and you are perfectly at liberty to believe anything you want. But don’t expect us to accept your unsubstantiated assertions.

Thank you: you may close the browser now.
# pplaylife 2010-02-01 20:59

playlife said,

June 27, 2008 at 2:13 am

I think irritating people tend to go away when you ignore them.
When you show irritation, that generally fuels them to irritate you further.

So can we please just get back on topic? Its sooo exciting!
# wattts 2010-02-01 21:00

watts said,

June 27, 2008 at 4:41 am

One thing I know is that when you want to convince someone about something, insulting is NOT the way to go.
# benny 2010-02-01 21:00

benny said,

June 27, 2008 at 2:53 pm

Ok, can i vote even though i’m straight please? Not all straight men are lesbian haters. I’ll like to nominate Pam Oei. Saw some of her plays and find her very attractive.
# Skot 2010-02-01 21:00
Hang on ‘Watts’…..go back through this page , from my first comments i was replied with insults and mockery.

‘playlife’……..this “topic” you think is “sooo exciting” is exactly the problem.

‘pleinelune’….your conversation was not “great”…….and i hate that part where when people are confronted with how wrong their behaviour is , and why , they then jump to varitions on the “who are you to judge” spiel.
God gave human beings intellect , reason and a conscience , with which to know right from wrong…..and real law , the authority to judeg right and wrong is given to us via that. Real law comes from Divinity and nature.
You actually mention unsubstantiated claims?
Absolute Divine truth , total natural and biological truth , cultural and social truth are not “unsubstantiated claims”………au contraire , it is the “claims” made by irresponsible ego-tists that get into “lesbianism/homosexuality” which are unsubstantiated !
And if you are so vain as to imagine no person can know right and wrong , and be an authority on them , then you probably imagine we should throw open all the prison doors , continue polluting the environment , go on warring , take whatever we want , whenever we want….because “no-one” is an authority on right and wrong?

‘Pleco’…..God made you as a “perfect lesbian”???……you mean with the womb going to waste , the cruel disregard for men , the dismissal of nature , the insult to family , the damage to society , the selfish biased arrogance ???

“Nothing i say means anything here , or anywhere else” ?
Think about that.
(and , of course , you’ll all be probably be protesting in favour of “free speech , and “queer rights” ?…….but , if someone speaks with truth and conscience it “means nothing”?)

No-one , Pleco , can be a combination of ignorance and stupidity , ignorance implies a determined ignoring of something , a wilful , conscious ignoring.
And the vanity of “lesbianism” is the worst extreme of ignorance.
And that’s why you are held to total blame………you are not ’stupid’ , and God most definitely did not make you like this…..your’s is a most obnoxious ignorance.

It’s shocking !…..what is it you imagine you “know” , while obstinately pursuing a “SAME sex” “lifestyle” ?

It’s awful that you’ll refer to someone as a “joke” , “fool” and all your other put downs.
( but , could you imagine if a male called a woman a “joke” , and said she “means nothing”?)
(and , of course , it’s alright to have us “jokes” and “fools” doing all the actual hard work in society , just as long as we stick to the shadows and don’t interrupt your “party”?)

I don’t fear “lesbians”….because , despite what your ego will have you try to promote….no-one “”is”" a “lesbian”.
I do fear “lesbianism”….that worst level of callous , arrogance.

‘ling’…..your notion of “if i don’t like what you are talking about , then don’t come here” , is a staggering example of the problem as well !
This corrupt “lifestyle” is the problem………yes , i could be silent , just suffer in silence while you “party”…..or , and it is crucial , i speak up , i speak out , i make a stand.

Your “lifestyle” impacts !
There is no getting out responsibility in life…….and your indulgent , superficial , wasteful “lifestyle” impacts terribly.

This nonsense about “if you don’t like it , go away” , is used by many people doing bad things in an attempt to get people off the trail.
And it is no good.

Your saying that “no one cares” just sums up your conceit , your removed , elitist arrogance.

Your all ‘keeping to yourselves’….considering yourselves “perfect”……and making lists about other women… all part and parcel of the problem.
It’s got to stop.

And , sadly , you really are getting terribly far away from being “ladies”.

# jeean 2010-02-01 21:00

jean said,

June 27, 2008 at 2:55 pm

Hi can someone ban this skot please. He obviously have issues.
# Skot 2010-02-01 21:01
Skot said,

June 27, 2008 at 3:22 pm

Ahhh , there we have it again !
“ban me”.
And it’s happened before !
I speak the truth , you know it….but it’ll interrupt the party….so “ban him” you cry.
Everything i write……you have no , and could have no , response to…….so “ban him” is the call.

Funny how short the liberites allowed by libertines go….funny how those so “free” will stifle real free speech.

Wouldn’t want the truth to get in the way of the party now….would we ?
Wouldn’t want reponsibility and conscience to impede that self indulgent “lifestyle” ?

How many others that come along against your conceit will you seek to ban?

You cannot “ban” the truth !

This vulgar , arrogant , irresponsible choice of “lesbianism” is the issue !

And , yes , most definitely , i have an issue with it….and i most stridently take issue with it 1

# pleinelunee 2010-02-01 21:01

pleinelune said,

June 27, 2008 at 3:58 pm

Skot, in our collective experience, there is absolutely no use engaging extreme homophobes like you. To actually entertain your rants and ravings and treat them as serious arguments is a waste of time and insult to our intelligence. If you actually had real, rational arguments, I’d happily engage in a debate with you, but since you don’t, I am not going to bother.

So, continue ranting, no one is going to pay any attention to you.
# pleinelunee 2010-02-01 21:01

pleinelune said,

June 27, 2008 at 4:01 pm

And might I remind you, we are within our perfect liberties to ban you. This webspace is the legal property of Sayoni, and we have the full rights to decide who gets to utilise OUR space. The only reason we have not banned you yet is because we believe in some measure of free speech. Or else you would have been banned from the first comment.
# lingg 2010-02-01 21:01

ling said,

June 27, 2008 at 5:10 pm

And I thought there were more nominees… Sigh.

More name ladies? :D
# lingg 2010-02-01 21:01

ling said,

June 27, 2008 at 5:10 pm

*names I meant.
# Skot 2010-02-01 21:01

Skot said,

June 28, 2008 at 8:34 am

pleinelune . . .Gee , it’s interesting that you took so long to bring that most shiny of counterfeit arguments out of the fabricted libertine arsenal.

Usually that weak modernism “homophobe” is first cab of the well rehearsed “p.c” rank……and then , when it doesn’t work…….it’s on to the glib dismissal….and then the insults about “not getting any women” , penis size , “stupid men” , “fools” , “simplistic male brains” etc etc………which you started with……..what ?… you think changing tact , and starting with the putdowns , and then lumbering in what you imagine will be the cuop de grace….”"homophobe”"….might work?


“”homophobe/s”" ?
Firstly , as i’ve said…..despite your exagerrated conceit… actually “is” a “homo”.
No-one “is” a “druggie” , no-one “is” a “racist” , no-one “is” a thief………the bad behaviour does indeed happen , it is perpertrated……but this does not make the actions and attitude the inherent identity of the culprit.

“homosexuality” and “lesbianism”….are attitudes , eminating from overwhelming self obsession , vanity , irresponsibility……and are fuelled by a rampantly affluent ’society’.

….a ‘phobia’ ? ………..a fear ?
Yes , i do most definitely fear seeing this going on…….most definitely !
How could i not ?
I’m a man…..i , naturally, love women , i am obsessed with women , i need women….as all men do…….there is supposed to be a harmonious union between male and female , between Man and Woman……….i work hard , i pine away , i’m good , i’m soulful……yet , we have come to a time when superficial vanity , the pursuit of wealth , and flagrant disregard for anything deep and lasting is pushed and promoted…..and in this time….when women are absolutely “hot” , and men are “not”…….and any ego that a lot of females already had , has gone to your heads….. the next , awful , step into “lesbianism” is the terrible result.

Yes , i fear it.
I dread it.

However , this glib mockery…….”homophobe”………bizarrely , used by those committing these offensive sins , to try and make those who are hurt by , and fight against , them…..seem like THEY are in the wrong……..comes no-where near communicating my hurt , my pain , my sadness , my anger….my rage….at this vulgar arrogance.

I hate the vain choices of “lesbianism/homosexuality”.

You seem , pleinelune , to be attempting to play some kind of word game…..which might almost work in a conversation , where memory of earlier words may be cloudy……and you accuse me of “rants” and “ravings”…..when , the truth is the opposite , and the evidence is all above us in ‘black and white’ (or pixilated balck and blue)… , from the get go , from “simplistic male minds” on , and all the others who have replied to me , have ranted , raved , and tried to fob me off.

“intelligence”…’s always staggering that those getting into permissive “same sex” lifestyles always try to pass themselves off as more intelligent.

I repeatedly give , and refer to , the overwhelming truth against “homosexuality/lesbianism”…………you , have broken away from nature , rebelled against Divinity , spurned family , culture and tradition , rejected , cruelly , a whole gender , adopted flagrant irresponsibility as a “lifestyle” , decided you are the be all and end all………… try , go on try , and fumble around for a ‘real and rational argument’ to explain that.

Try and come up with a ‘real and rational argument’ for the choice of “”lesbianism”".

And , i am not ‘arguing’ with you , this is not an ‘argument’……what you are doing is wrong , and i’m reminding you so.

There is no , and can be no , “debate” about “lesbianism”……….it’s wrong , completely wrong , and must stop.
Nothing to debate ,no terms to come to.

You’re “not going to bother” , because you know you’ve built a house of cards , and that your vain , conceited “choice of lifestyle” ……cannot call up any argument , has no substance , is thoroughly unsubtantiated , can muster no ‘debate’ in it’s excuse , and can stand up to no real , concerted assault and attention.

‘not bothering’ is no way to live.

I’m ‘bothered’…..because i care !

And you dare to say something about “OUR”/your” “space” !
Well , the planet is my space , is ALL OUR space………the world is ALL OUR space…..society is ALL OUR space…………and no-one has the imagined “”full rights”" or fabricated “”liberties”" to ruin it !
Not under the guise of some fanciful ‘V.I.P’ “”OUR space”"……..not ever.

# Plecco 2010-02-01 21:02

Pleco said,

June 28, 2008 at 10:56 am

yes, let’s ignore this guy–he was a good joke at first but now he’s getting upset and repeating himself it’s boring.

While I do feel sorry for him it’s not our fault he’s got nothing better to do.
(well, at least he still manages to convince his mum he’s got a life–maybe she’ll buy him a foreign wife…)

Can we ban him?

Plus delete his previous comments please? It’s like having someone shitting all over our living room.

we can’t erase him from our planet but at least we can erase him from our space here, right?
(Please please pleine??? I’ll vote for you as super spacesaver!!!)
# Skot 2010-02-01 21:02

Skot said,

June 28, 2008 at 12:41 pm

So , reinforcing yourself…..with no possible recourse , or viable response to anything i wrote………you , after reiterating that i am a “joke” , then you callously move onto “delete his comments” and “can we ban him”.

You say you feel sorry for me , but then have the nerve to claim it’s not your fault what is going on !
You are the ones getting into “lesbianism”… it is , your fault.
Totally , your fault… are at fault.

If you truly felt sorry…’d stop this….and return to men .

And more of this bizarreness about my mum , and then something about buying me a foreign wife ????

‘Erase me’ ?………..from our (your ?) planet !
It is OUR planet.
And it’s awful how you imagine ‘your’ elitist ’space’ here amounts to some justification of your attitude….some (wrongly) perceived ‘utopia’ , upon whence no lowly male may come and “”shit all over”".

Awful , as well , that on computers , invented by men….and on the internet , developed by men , that you imagine you have some “right” to perpetrate a ”female only” “lifestyle”….to the total detriment of men.

“erase me” ? . . . . . .like you are vainly attempting to ‘erase’ so much from your lives.
Not good.

“erase me”…..because , lest anyone come along here and see that everything is not all smooth sailing in the “gay noughties” , not everyone has been tamed and brainwashed into ‘going with the flow’….lest any women who may be making the mistake of contemplating this trendy “lifestyle” see that there are any men who actually care…passionately…..who are hurt , deeply , by this “”preferance”"…..who are making a stand .

“erase me” ?…….lest my words start to thaw your hearts………lest my words begin to make conctact with your remote conscience.

# Plecco 2010-02-01 21:02

Pleco said,

June 28, 2008 at 2:18 pm

Oh I got one–Beatrice Chia-Richmond!!!

Elegant, gorgeous & really really classy!
# lingg 2010-02-01 21:02

ling said,

June 28, 2008 at 6:44 pm

Oo. Good nomination!
# pplaylife 2010-02-01 21:03

playlife said,

June 28, 2008 at 8:18 pm

I nominate Stephanie Sun! love her voice..and Ruien too.

p.s. Could somebody do something about skot?
# pplaylife 2010-02-01 21:03
Plecco said,

June 29, 2008 at 10:19 am

Agree on Stephanie Sun! If only there was some way we could include sound (great speaking & singing voices make such a difference!) instead of just pix for the voting!
# humphh 2010-02-01 21:03

humph said,

June 29, 2008 at 7:59 pm

someone give me this skot’s ip address please
# HMoody 2010-02-01 21:03

HMoody said,

June 29, 2008 at 8:08 pm

I used to think Beatrice Chia was hot, but im still sticking to Pam Oei and Priscelia Chan… heee.
# ebbelle 2010-02-01 21:03

ebelle said,

June 29, 2008 at 11:06 pm

I agree, Beatrice Chia is hot! I third, fouth or fifth her nomination!
# jinn 2010-02-01 21:04

jin said,

July 1, 2008 at 11:33 pm

psst, Skot… you actually write very fluently with good grammar. Just wanted to remind you that you don’t need to hit space-bar before a comma, only after. Otherwise, thanks for providing chuckles and for driving the readership of sayoni blog sky-high!
# radiokhaki 2010-02-01 21:04

radiokhaki said,

July 3, 2008 at 5:43 pm


i truly feel sad for him. aww.
# AnJJ 2010-02-01 21:04

i truly feel sad for him. aww.

AnJ said,

July 4, 2008 at 9:48 pm

“I am unmarried , as yet.
But , i fear , that with the way things are going , it�ll stay that way.” – skot

Oh come on ladies, he’s obviously upset that he couldn’t get a partner! That’s why he’s ranting and raving~!

It’s Dr. Catherine Lim who gets my vote. I like her stories. :)

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